25 Things I've Learned from My Parents in 25 Years

25 Things I've Learned from My Parents in 25 Years

December 25, 2012

1. Treat others how you would like to be treated, and always pay it forward.

"If you get, give. If you learn, teach."

Maya Angelou

2. You teach people how to treat you.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

Eleanor Roosevelt

3. The way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time, so don't allow yourself to be

overwhelmed by any challenge life

may present you with or any dream you may wish to follow.

"It always seems impossible until is done."

Nelson Mandela

4. You are whomever you hang out with.

(And try not to end sentences with prepositions unless absolutely necessary.)

"Surround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher."

Oprah Winfrey

5. Always be honest about everything, including who you are.

If you hope to be understood and accepted,

then learn to accept others for who they are as well.

“To be nobody-but-yourself -- in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you

everybody else -- means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight;

and never stop fighting.”

e.e. cummings

6. Always humble yourself to apologize when you've been wrong,

and always be open to forgiving others who have wronged you.

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

Mahatma Gandhi

7. The right thing to do is not only often the hardest thing to do

but also the only thing to do.

Always take the high road, even if you're the only person

who will ever know that you did.

"The measure of a man's character is what he would do

if he knew he would never be found out."

Thomas Babington Macauley

8. Always call people back and never burn bridges.

"Live in such a way that if anyone should speak badly of you, no one would believe it."

Unknown

9. Give people second chances.

"When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves."

William Arthur Ward

10. Always be willing to look at yourself to see what you can improve,

and then take whatever steps are necessary in order to do so.

"Let the refining and improving of your own life keep you so busy that you have

little time to criticize others."

H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

11. Take responsibility for your own actions.

"We are what we repeatedly do."

Aristotle

12. Never be afraid to speak up for others.

"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies

but the silence of our friends."

Martin Luther King, Jr.

13. Trust in your own abilities, and never fall into the trap of believing

that being different is the same thing as being wrong.

"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree,

it will live its whole life believing it is stupid."

Albert Einstein

14. Follow what you love to do, and everything else will fall into place.

"Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love.

It will not lead you astray."

Rumi

15. True beauty comes from within.

"Everything is beautiful, but beautiful isn't everything."

Unknown

16. Don't let fear of the future keep you from traveling down the right path.

"Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go."

T.S. Eliot

17. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure,

so think ahead before you make a decision.

“Before you act, listen. Before you react, think. Before you spend, earn.

Before you criticize, wait. Before you pray, forgive. Before you quit, try.”

Ernest Hemingway

18. Always do your best to help those in need without any expectation of being repaid.

"Do small things with great love."

Mother Teresa

19. Education is not about landing a well-paying job;

it's about making you a well-rounded person.

Never stop wondering, learning, and growing.

"The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically.

Intelligence plus character – that is the goal of true education."

Martin Luther King, Jr.

20. Ask other people questions about themselves and genuinely listen to their responses.

"The moment one gives close attention to anything, even a blade of grass,

it becomes a mysterious, awesome, indescribably magnificent world in itself."

Henry Miller

21. Always do your best to make other people feel

welcome and comfortable in any situation.

"People will forget what you said; people will forget what you did;

but people will never forget how you made them feel."

Maya Angelou

22. Don't be afraid to admit if you don't know the answer.

Never stop questioning what is true.

"The universe is wider than our views of it."

Henry David Thoreau

23. The most important things in life are the experiences

you share with the people you love.

.

"If you want your children to turn out well,

spend twice as much time with them and half as much money."

Abigail Van Buren

24. Think of others first, but know when to stand up for yourself.

"When you say 'yes' to others, make sure you are not saying 'no' to yourself."

Paulo Coehlo

25. Lead a balanced life by alternating between the big picture and the small picture.

It may not seem entirely normal to switch from laughter to tears

and then back to laughter again within minutes,

but it keeps you honest and makes life interesting.

"So, this is my life.

And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad

and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be."

Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower